Is It Better To Be Loved Or Respected First?

Respect First?  Why? It’s easier for someone to like you later on once they get to know you, but getting respect later on can be an uphill battle.  If you’re trying to gain acceptance from day one, this is a smell of desperation.  People who look for acceptance from the wrong people are targets to…

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Raising Your Standards

Your standards are sometimes linked to your confidence.  If you have low standards, you may have low expectations for yourself.  This is fine if you’re first starting out, but don’t keep your standards low down the line.  The goal is to raise your standards so you’ll have more enjoyment out of life, enjoying the finer…

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Finding The Courage To Keep Pushing Forward

A Lot Of Fights Are Won When You Keep Fighting When You’re Not The Strongest Talking about fights and championships while down by 20 points is too obvious.  What about the average, everyday events that go on in our lives?  Everyday we strive to reach our full potential but may find ourselves fighting an uphill…

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Where Should Your Confidence Come From?

Where should your confidence come from? Your confidence shouldn’t come from the car you drive… It shouldn’t come from the clothes you wear… It shouldn’t be at the bottom of a bottle… Your confidence should come from within! Why is this? You lose your car, there goes your confidence and self-esteem with it. It’s hard…

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Is Your Personality A Repellent?

A Repellent Personality Is Not Permanent Have you ever tried to talk to people, but it felt like they had one foot heading in the opposite direction?  Have you ever asked people to hang out but they came up with lame, obvious excuses all the time?  You may have a problem.  You may not be…

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The Less You Care, The More You Succeed

People Care More Than They Really Have To Believe it or not but caring too much can actually have a reverse affect.  Instead of getting what you want, you get disappointment.  It’s not about not caring at all, but more like caring less than you need to.  When you care just a little less than…

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Liquor Confidence

Don’t Rely On Alcohol To Give You Confidence Wanna know why alcohol is served at parties, clubs, and almost every social gathering you can think of?  It’s because a lot of people need it to let go of their inhibitions and start socializing.  If you see a woman you like at a bar or club,…

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Are You Confident Or Are You Arrogant?

There’s A Thin Line Between Having Supreme Confidence And Arrogance Confidence keeps you sharp, but arrogance can have you get to a point where you feel you don’t need to put in the work anymore.  Let’s say you’re a fighter.  You have a record of 40 wins and 0 loses.  You start getting to a…

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Rebuilding Your Confidence After Defeat

Losing Is Not The End Of The World… Sometimes It’s A New Beginning Unless your life is on the line, or you’re about to be done paralyzing bodily harm if you lose, you can recover from a lost.  In most cases, losing is a learning lesson.  If you accept it as a lesson, you will…

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Relationship Peer Pressure

Getting into a relationship can have a lot of pressure behind it.  A lot of this pressure can come from friends and family.  Your mother may ask you “when are you going to give her some grandbabies?”  Your friends may be talking about taking their girlfriends on dates and ask you when are you gonna…

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