Treat People The Way They Need To Be Treated

There’s a saying, “Treat people the way you want to be treated”.  This is true to a certain extent, but what if you like being treated like crap and the other person doesn’t?  What if you like being treated like royalty, but the other person thinks if you treat them like royalty then that makes you weak?  There are a lot of men who get thrown in the friend zone because they treat the women nice.  These men would also like for the women to treat them nice.

It’s a good practice to treat people with respect because you want to be treated with respect, but if someone shows disrespect, you should check them on their behavior.  If someone is respectful, you should reward them for their behavior.  Even if you don’t want to be checked, you should check people on their behavior when they are not acting right.  There are people who want the people they meet to spoil them and do favors for them all the time.  These same people may look at you like you are out of your mind if you ask them for the littlest favor.  In situations like this, you treat the people the way they NEED to be treated.  Stop doing these people favors until they can return the favor.

Mutual respect is the foundation of a strong relationship.  When both parties respect each other, you tend to not try to take advantage of one another.  You tend to not try to get over on the other person.  If the other party does you a favor, you tend to return the favor.  So if you like a girl, don’t try to get on her good side by doing her a bunch of favors and spoiling her.  Instead treat her with respect, and expect her to do the same thing in return.  If she can’t respect you before you get into a relationship with her, it will be an uphill battle if the both of you end up together.

When there’s mutual respect, the love becomes stronger.  You could hate someone in the beginning, but respect them as a person.  This is acceptable.  Once the person gets to know you better and understands things from your point of view, and you understand theirs, they could grow to like you.  Something that is unacceptable is loving someone, but not respecting them.  You may love them for the wrong reasons.  You may love them because they put you on a pedestal, but you look at them as if they’re a peasant.  You may love them because they are naive, making it easier for you to take advantage of them.  After a while, you may leave this person for someone else because you can’t truly love someone without the respect to back it up.  Establish respect first, then work on loving each other when you get to know each other better.

Treating people the way they need to be treated is not always easy.  As a matter of fact, it’s very hard to check people when you consider yourself a nice person and think of checking someone as you being mean to them.  For some people, they hate the idea of doing favors, but will accept favors from people without a problem.  If people do you favors, start returning favors.  If you don’t like checking people, you find out that the more you check people, the more nice they start treating you.

It’s time to build a solid foundation of real confidence so you can start getting the respect you deserve.  So you can have the power to check any disrespect that comes your way.  Wanna know how?

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